Challenging Limiting Beliefs


You can’t create a new life with an old script.

Limiting beliefs aren’t just negative thoughts.
They’re inherited stories—rooted in fear, repetition, and emotional conditioning.

And often?
They’re invisible until you try to grow.

You hit a goal—and sabotage it.
You want connection—but push people away.
You crave more—but say things like “Who am I to want that?”

Your subconscious will always fight for the familiar.
That’s why awareness is only the first step—rewriting is the real work.

You don’t need to bully your mind into believing new things.
You just need to see the old script clearly, trace its root, and choose differently—over and over.


 

Engagement Element: Belief Rewrite Journal Prompt

Journal through this fill-in-the-blank reframe:

“I used to believe _______________ because _______________.
But now I see that _______________.
I’m choosing to believe _______________ instead.”


 

Mini Scenario:

You get offered a new opportunity.
Your first thought isn’t excitement—it’s:
“I’m not ready. I’ll probably mess it up.”

Before you even say yes, your brain starts negotiating against you.
Not because you aren’t capable…
But because a belief you didn’t choose is still running the show

 



 

Reflection Prompts:

Step 1: Identify the moment that triggered fear or doubt
Step 2: Ask: “What story am I telling myself about this?”
Step 3: Trace the origin: “Where did I learn that?”
Step 4: Disprove it: “Is this always true—or just familiar?”
Step 5: Rewrite it: “What do I want to believe instead?”

Example:

  • Trigger: A new relationship starts feeling good
  • Old Story: “They’ll leave like everyone else”
  • Origin: Childhood abandonment
  • Truth: “This relationship is not the past.”
  • Rewrite: “I’m allowed to be loved and stay safe.”